Wednesday, June 28, 2006

Staying cool

For some reason, put rocks from the drive way into water filled buckets was at least an hour's worth of entertainment.... well ok maybe not a whole hour but it could have been. So easy to please ;-) Notice the drops of water on Isaiah's neck and how wet his shirt is. The boy LOVES water. Dave squirted him with the hose a few times while he was in the pool and he just laughed. Dave would squirt his belly and he would just get a big grin on his face. Even inadvertent squirts in the face would just bring a brief moment of astonishment followed by a huge grin Ah the cheapo miracle pool. We were all just sweltering. Everyone got in except .... Me... notice the black chair and kleenexes next to it in the background. I set up the where the hose connected to a different hose and was squirting a little to give me a nice and constant cool mist on my legs. And with the kleenex box close by I was well prepared for those nasty allergy sneezes (I went through all of Sarah and Dave's kleenex and started on at least one new box) Such a contented little guy. He sure loves his big sister. Anything Ellen does or has, Isaiah wants to copy. Such fun watching him bonk heads with Dave and walk around the house in Ellen's new princess high heels all in the same hour. When we heard it was going to be a record breaking 101 degrees we quick ran to my FAVORITE Fred Meyer store and got a cheapo pool to hang out in. Watering the yard was also a favorite, as was a squirt bottle armed with cold water for those no airconditioning in the car rides

Beautiful and Amaze me

Pretty soon everyone was getting into the princess act. Here is Mr. Budd himself modeling the most gorgeous clip on earrings. Quite the look, don't you think? Ellen loved the shoes, tiara and earrings, but not as much as Isaiah I think, who started his own congo line following sister around the house (notice mom following Isaiah) Isn't she beautiful. Ellen loves to play dress up. All weekend long Ellen kept saying "Bopp can you amaze me?" not sure exactly what she wanted me to do, but I think I got confused here between amaze me and scare me. Ellen got lots of new clothes and everytime she opened some she very femininely said "isn't this beautiful" in such a practical and matter of fact voice.

Not even sure where to start

The Theme for this year's birthday party was Disney princesses. Sarah got to be Jasmine, Ellen was Aurora, I was Ariel and I have conveniently forgotten which princesses Dave and Isaiah got to be Ellen really wasn't in favor of the party hats until Dave came up with the napkin trick that was a hit! Isaiah Budd the stud did not mind 3 party hats at the same time, but 4 was beyond his limit of endurance and with one fell swoop knocked them all off. I had the best and the worst visit ever in Oregon this weekend. It was the best because I just LOVE to be with the Budd family. Sarah and Dave are just great to hang out with and the kids are...beyond incredible. My experiences and memories with them keep a smile on my face for months. The worst part though was it was record breaking hot and I do believe as Sarah says "I am allergic to Oregon" I love the area, but oh my goodness I couldn't stop sneezing and you just couldn't get away from outside air without suffocating to DEATH. I took some medicine and began the staring off into the distance mode with the everything is just outside the realm of the really here and now consciousness. Anyone else have that experience from just one Benadryl? I think I will post a few pictures here, but will make a copy of all the pictures and movies I took for any family members that want one. Just let me know. I am already making one for Sarah.

Sunday, June 25, 2006

The blessings of June 27

I'd just like to take a moment to reflect on the blessings of my son and my granddaughter, both born on June 27. I think this must be an extraordinary day because these are two really special people. Yesterday, Bryan dropped his plans for the day to come rescue me from the demise of my computer. Sadly I am still to be banned from ethernet land on this particular machine, but Bry's always ready willingness to help and expressions of love in his care of me make me sooo grateful that he is my son. I have spent some time this morning reading his blog and just admiring the intelligence of this gentle man. Bry makes a difference. I think he makes a positve difference in the lives of all he touches because he is thoughtful and his actions reflect the thoughtfulness that he gives to all actions of life. Yesterday I arrived in Portland and was warmly and enthusiastically greeted by Ellen running down the airport hall with her arms out hollering "Bopp". What a great hug I got and how that just warmed my heart. This little cutie is the most unique human being. The sayings she comes up with... I just don't know where they come from. Yesterday, I don't know how many times I was "impossible... Bopp you are just impossible" "why Ellen" "You're just impossible" Because her mom and dad treat her with respect and talk to her intelligently, she can carry on the most incredible conversations. She just melts my heart and is such a joy to be around. Anyway I just wanted to pay special tribute to these two very dear to me people who will be celebrating their 30th and 3rd birthdays respectively. I love you both.

Readings of late

As part of the program that I started a month or so ago, I will be reading lots of business books. I started on the first two, Built to Last and Good to Great by Jim Collins. I actually have liked them more than I thought I would. Built to last examines what makes a great company, visionary or what makes them go on and on and on. Suprisingly it is not the making money and get bigger and bigger and bigger concept. That may be an outgrowth of their core principles, but it is not THE core principle. I think THE core principle of the book for me, is that these companies had a core VALUE. Something that drove them in all aspects. And for many of the ones examined, in fact most of them, it was to do good, to make a positive contribution to society. Even Philip Morris, whose core value appears to be to promote independence and freedom of decision whatever the health consequences of that decision may be. I think Merck might have impressed me the most, or at least the way they were written up in this book, with investing in NEW, pharmecutical discoveries and products that will make a positive contribution to our society by making our health better. Not out for the big buck... although that did seem to be the consequence of most of these companies decisions but not what drove them. I am really not sure how many of the principles of this book can be applied to government unless we have more accountability and can actually trim the fat both in process and personnel more nimbly. I am not saying there are too many government workers. I would say there are too many contractors and that the govt doesn't take enough personal responsibility for the work that it does... we need the continuity. But there needs to be more effective workers. Workers that are held to a higher standard of accountability for the salary they earn - it really is a trust you know, when I think about my tax dollars paying part of my salary. It makes me more conscious of how I spend my time and efforts. And we need a process that values the workers by thinking ahead, making a plan, and a well thought out plan, so that an employees time can be spent profitably, working toward the well defined and well thought out long term and short term goal of the organization. Is that pie in the sky? Am I being too idealistic? Anyway second book I am in the process of reading is Good to Great. This study faces the more difficult challenge of taking a good or mediocre company and examining what factors turn it into a great company. Again the key appears to be clearness and focus of purpose. Focusing on what you can do BEST and not getting sidetracked by what you can be good at. I had thought at the beginning of this course that I did not want to be a manager, just a better leader in what ever projects I am able to participate in. But the real challenge is to motivate a group of people to excel in a common goal, instead of just working toward that end myself, so maybe I will start to reconsider the manager thing a little.

Sunday, June 11, 2006

Biltmore House

Last weekend we went to the Biltomore estate in Asheville, NC. First of all I love Asheville. I think I would like to live there. Second this was built by George Vanderbilt and had over 60 bedrooms and as many bathrooms. The audio tour is a must. Next time I think we will take some behind the scenes tours.Some of the plaster work on the outside was so interesting. Not sure how many different figurines there were all over the whole outside of the house. I did see some repeated. But they were really quite whimsical. The Gardens outside were gorgeous. George originally owned all the land to the mountains see far in the backround. I believe now some of those lands are either a national or state park. But he was primarily responsible for reforesting the land between his and the mountains.